Middle Grounds: Essays on Midlife Mothering, Edited by Kathy Mantas and Lorinda Peterson





Price: $34.95

Page Count: 284

Publication Date: June 2018

ISBN: 978-1-77258-159-1

Although motherhood writings are rich and emerging, the available literature on midlife motherhood and mothering is incomplete and often presented from a narrow perspective. Middle Grounds: Essays on Midlife Mothering fills this gap, widening the lens on a sociological phenomenon that is expanding in the twenty first century. It brings together scholarly and creative essays from diverse disciplines and cultural perspectives to reflect a more contemporary viewpoint — that motherhood and mothering is not limited by the stages of life or chronological age. It echoes distinct voices speaking about experiences that represent a global reality for midlife mothering practices. In essence, this collection demonstrates that everything can transpire in the middle period of a woman’s life. Thus, in midlife, we encounter a broad range of mothering experiences and practices, and ways of rep- resenting and expressing them.

“This powerful collection of essays explores the timely and important topic of mothering and midlife. One of the strengths of this collection is the variety of voices and genres, including scholarly chapters, personal reflections, and graphic narratives. Women today face professional responsibilities and caregiving pressures from multiple directions, and the chapters of Middle Grounds: Essays on Midlife Mothering offer scholars important insights and reassuring narratives to those working to reconcile competing demands. As the contributors poignantly demonstrate, mothering from the middle poses challenges as well as exciting possibilities.”

—Abigail L. Palko, co-editor of Mothers, Mothering and Globalization and Cul- tural Representations of Breastfeeding

 

“Middle Grounds opens up the possibilities that so much transpires in the middle of mothering between joy, suffering, tensions and limits. In reading these authors from diverse perspectives and forms, we are beckoned to conscious mothering, as their tales dance us between light, shadow, dark and colours. This is a book that calls forth a turning from scared to sacred, reaffirming the connection between the personal and universal. These authors caress the details with depth, nuance and wisdom and sing into the world; shifting midlife out of the doldrums of predictability. Packed with insights and wisdom, artfully crafted, I am beckoned to once again honour every moment.”

—Celeste Snowber, author of Embodied Inquiry and Wild Tourist

Acknowledgments

 

Introduction

Kathy Mantas and Lorinda Peterson

 

On a Collision Course? Feminist Ideals and the 

Mothering Professional in Middle Age 

Kerri S. Kearney

 

Falling Back, Springing Forward:

An Older First-Time Mother’s Experience of Time 

Kathy Mantas

 

Balancing Motherhood, Work, and Mental Health in Midlife: 

One Mother’s Personal Struggles

Amy Leisenring

 

Beyond Grasping for Straws in the Dark: Hospice as a Model for a Team-Oriented Approach to Mothering in Midlife

Pamela K. Coke

 

Into and Out of the Fire: A Retrospective Journal

Cara L. Preuss

 

Institutional Mothering:

Middling between University, Home, and Jail 

Tobi Jacobi

 

Parenting through the Fog

Niki Kaiser

 

Lilia’s World

Suzanne Kamata

 

Grief

Catherine Moeller

 

Mothering Myself: A Journey with/to the Inner Child

Amy Lee

 

The Benefits and Injuries of Midlife Mothering through an Autoethnographic Lens:

Or, Don’t Call Me Grandma

Nicole Willey

 

Midlife Burnout: Mothering, Multiple Roles, 

and Multiple Losses 

Victoria Team

 

Failure Is Not an Option: Learning to Succeed at Parenting in Midlife 

Erin Doering

 

Rock-a-Bye Baby: Mothering in Midlife

Elisabeth Hanscombe

 

Mother Unmoored:

Letting Myself Be Lost, I Got Found 

Sheila Martel

 

My Mother’s Mother

Margaret Kent Bass

 

Caricaturing Single, Midlife Motherhood in

Vanity’s Brief Encounters 

Penelope Mendonça 

 

Taking Custody

Lorinda Peterson

 

Home Economicus:

Some Disjunctures in Midlife Mothering 

Lois Klassen

 

When Story Time Is Over:

Mothering Adult Children by Practising Productive Silence 

Fiona Joy Green and Jaqueline McLeod Rogers

 

About the Contributors

Kathy Mantas is an associate professor of Education at Nipissing University. Kathy’s research interests include: ongoing teacher development, knowledge and identity; arts education; creativity in teaching-learning contexts and in women educators; artful and creative inquiry; holistic and wellness education; and motherhood and mothering studies. She is the editor of Mothering Multiples: Complexities and Possibilities (Demeter Press).

Lorinda Peterson is a PhD Candidate in Cultural Studies and a Teaching Fellow in Gender Studies at Queen’s University. Her research explores motherhood at the intersection of theory and practice, focused on trauma and memory. She creates comics, other sequential work, and poetry in an art-based praxis for understanding and representing embodied experience. She publishes and exhibits her work regularly.